The One...

The likes of Lotusblossom604 (Justine), Northerncutie08 (Tracy) and Berrybusygirl (Debbie) say that during their hunt for 'The One'... it can be a way to achieve romantic wholeness by dating partners with differing interests and personalities while in NHL:1. We also have Mounta_00 (Jeremy), HockeyMom935 (Cerah), Foxy_the_first (Ine), Vicesandhabits (Jimmy) who are looking for love in all the wrong places, and not under their own rooftop.

I agree with them, that you should explore various options in finding love... but are these people not married? Why do they still play the game?

I can understand where chatters may tickle their outdoor fancy, while other chatters may fulfill their penchant for hockey while visiting a chat room... but these married individuals seem to have taken it a step further and gone as far as to speaking on the phone numerous times throughout a given week with multiple NHL:1 chatters.

Where has the loyalty gone?

Instead of building a better relationship with their husbands or wives... who obviously only meet half their needs... (or at least they pay the bills) they would rather enjoy a day of hockey chat, or a night of cyber-sex with multiple chat partners like Zr22k, TML_fan_4_life, Flyereddie48, or Costergirl16.

I definitely agree that by expanding one's romantic options or multi dating on or offline can loosen up one's definition of his/her type and help one mingle with a vast array of potential mates out there, but once again... not if you are married.

In real-life, some male and female chatters have tossed away a good thing because their partner wasn't a 100% perfect match. I guess when you have the likes of single studs in chat like Ripstic5021 (Scott), Briereyote (Dean), Hotshotschamp (Chris), Thornton_19_ca, Forever_frantic (Linda) Fischer_Brittany... who have it all... they seem like quite the catch to any man or woman, married or not.

Back...

Okay... back to the dating world... the online universe, of course... where some chatters have a bustling social calendar that features more than one active, ongoing romance.

How about if you're not married, but you are in a relationship? Is it okay then to 'play around'? Is online flirtation and cyber-sex considered cheating? Many have voiced their opinions on this, and the vote is spilt... 50-50. Let me know what the rest of you think.

How does a chatter date this way without getting confused and creating embarrassing, news reel worthy moments? How can one do so without compromising one’s own morals or those of the sweeties involved?

Tell me Boltsgirlvl4 (Jill), Forsy_girl (Jenn) Antiwhy (Ryan), Talker_a_Talker (Jon), Jerzzzey (Paul), Shortybynature (Mandi), Sharks1419 (Allie), Butter_cup0 (Lindsay), Wildbp (Bill), Hovy_Kovy (Dave), Not2visible_31 (Tasha), Ninetythreerookieoftheyear (Paulie B.), Hastingsgirl (Rachel), Ari_freaking_gold (Todd), Citygirl0117 (Tina), Aka_rockin_canadian_girl (Dani), Mary_Christine21... etc. etc. etc... where are the morals?

I am not sure what category to put Sherry_Berry27 in... as I have not been able to confirm the rumour that she may have married xl_five_lx (Mitch) or not. I have confirmed though, that she has been phone-sperming some of the male chatters above, if not all, in recent weeks.

Most of you reading this I'm sure noticed that your name was not mentioned. I'm not sure if this is a good thing, or bad... though it does confirm you have no life! My apologies to those who I may have inadvertently left out.

Allow me to offer some advice to the chat 'scrap given to me by Buff_lincoln90210 one evening...

...Buff says that if you are looking to amp up your love life... then it is time to expand your social circle. Buff also says that the more people you know, the more you will mingle, and the more you mingle, then you are more than likely to meet 'The One'... or at least find a fun person to date for the time being.

Enjoy!